“We should have eloped.”
My friend, “We should have eloped,” is a common refrain among engaged (and even married) couples. Often it’s said as a joke in the face of wedding planning stress. Yet, even as a joke it begs a really important question: “Why are we doing all this?” You’re getting married. You’re celebrating all that you and your partner have become while setting the course for what’s next. It’s a beautiful, life-altering juncture to be at and live into. Yet… Week by week your free time is absorbed into long...